Shiny on the outside. Hollow on the inside. The unfiltered story of how I lost myself, died, and came back to build a life worth staying sober for. With fill-in pages so you can do the work alongside me.
Paperback and Kindle pre-orders open now · Audiobook 27 October
For years, my ego was my armour. Much like the Tin Man, I built a hard exterior and convinced myself that having no heart made me stronger. I was the fuckboy, the party boy, the bloke who could hurt people and hide behind confidence while avoiding what was really underneath it all.
Then sobriety changed me.
Getting sober wasn’t just about putting down cocaine. It was about taking off the armour. I had to drop the ego, become vulnerable, learn empathy and finally allow myself to feel everything I’d spent years running from.
The Tin Man had his armour and went searching for a heart. Through sobriety, I found mine.
What have you been telling yourself is under control?
Write it down. Nobody else is reading this page.
I told myself it was just weekends. Then Thursdays didn't really count. Everyone around me was doing it too.
Eight steps. Your pen. Your turn.
This isn’t a book you just read. Between chapters are fill-in pages that walk you through the same eight steps that got me sober, so the story becomes your starting point.
Who it's for
This book is for you if
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You’re quietly wondering if your drinking or partying has gone too far.
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You’re sober, or trying to be, and want someone who gets it.
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You love someone who’s struggling and don’t know what to look for.
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You’re done pretending everything’s fine.
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You know your partner is struggling, but they don’t think they have a problem.
To addiction
“You nearly killed me, but in doing so, you forced me to learn how to live. I hate you, but I love the man I became because I survived you.”
From Tin Man
What readers are saying
Davey has shown that addiction can be overcome, a powerful story of hope and turning your life around. Super proud of him.
Cooper Chapman
Good Humans
Few people are brave enough to tell the whole truth about addiction. Davey has done exactly that, and his book will make so many people feel seen, understood and less alone.
Tara Pavlovic
The Bachelor
I knew Davey in his darkest moments and now I know him in his brightest. His transformation has been nothing short of remarkable. Davey’s courage in sharing his story will give hope to countless people.
Ellidy Pullin
Darling, Shine!
About the author
Builder. Business owner. The guy who got a second shot.
Davey Lloyd runs his own construction company and speaks openly about addiction, ego and what it takes to rebuild. Tin Man is his first book.
Everything releases on 27 October. Kindle pre-orders are delivered on release day, and Amazon will show a delivery estimate for the paperback at checkout.
No. It is for anyone quietly wondering about their own habits, anyone who loves someone who is struggling, and anyone who wants to understand what it actually looks like from the inside.